It is one of those phases in life where you are called upon to make one of those decisions which everybody; family, friends and even the guy you meet on the street insists will make or break your life. Rings a familiar echo? Choices were supposed to be made after school and college but in most of our case, deliberately ignored.
Physics states that flow happens from a region of higher potential to one of lower potential. It might have been the flow trajectory that carried us after our higher secondary through our engineering dreams and the inevitable coaching institutes and deposited us as sediment in this beloved abode. Physics also states that every action has an equal and opposite reaction. This inherent contradiction seems to be too far beyond our grasp; or are we letting things drift by choice?
The greatest civilizations were borne out of these sediments.
The point is are we still not mature enough to make that choice. My time back in the institute has been a far cry from what it used to be. Pay packages, eligibilities, interviews and current affairs have taken over from the uninhibitted joy and gay abundance that used to be available in unlimited quantities. Be it the girl on the street or a batting debacle, discussuions these days have veered towards the intellectual with etiquette given prime importance. There is an uneasy eeriness prevailing just like the calm before a storm.
My experience in HUL was a real eye-opener in more ways than one. It impressed upon me the importance of doing what I wanted and not to be carried by the current. I didn't quite enjoy my time over there and even though I ended up completing my project better than expected and ended up with a fair pay, I didn't leave the place all smiles. I might have delivered but I sure hadn't enjoyed the process. I did drop hints that I wasn't interested in one of the funniest interviews that I will ever come across. I don't think that I would have stood a miniscule of a chance even if I had been interested. Companies' recruitment mantras are simply incomprehensible though this is not intended to be a slight against anybody.
I am delighted with the end result and am proud of my choice even though I don't have the slightest idea as to what comes next. Uncertainty about other options is surely not a good enough reason to opt for superficial fulfilment.
With the placements coming up, here are a few aspects that I felt needed to be shared in making that 'choice':
1) Never shy away from taking decisions. You are the best judge of your abilities and if you can't take a decision about your life, you are going to be doing no better with decisions on wind turbines and distillation columns. Company standing is important but you always have better growth prospects in companies that aren't exactly the toast of the world. There is lots of work to be done in such organisations and it could just provide your pathway to glory.
2) One of the major problems faced by all industries is the attrition rate involved. People are less likely to do well what they don't enjoy doing. You might develop a thick skin now and talk about adapting and developing cross-cultural relations but performance has always been related to satisfaction and external pressure. Pressure might have got us through the initial years but at this stage, satisfaction will supercede pressure with all individuals.
3) Salary packages are exactly that- mere packages. Understand the work profile, development prospects economically and mentally besides compatibility. Company X might be offering you a few lacs less at this point of time but you might be earning more in a year's time. As my friend remarked, "Look at the larger picture. You will get to know the finer details".
4) Start exploring what you would want to do in life. We have been guided by fixed targets thus far like a JEE exam or a four year B.Tech. but now......? The very purpose of existence will cease to exist without those definitive targets.
The above might seem a load of the most sensible crap ever brandished but a year down the line, this could top the charts with most people. After all it is a question of 'to be or not to be'.
Saturday, July 21, 2007
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9 comments:
You seem to be growing well...hope others can take a leaf out of ur book... and work according to the priorities and not pay package...
what u have written is very true ..but what about people like me who don't exactly know what to do in life.certainly the only option is follow the beaten path..possibly that fascinating "pathway to glory" is not for me and the rest of my tribe..
I think I am the person who knows most of it prior to its web version....
Don't worry yaar, you have made ur choice and I know that 5 years down the line you will not regret this or rather you will enjoy this maverick decision of urs
Best of Luck
Aditya
well this blog reflects the mental state of all the guys here who are jus magnetised by the booming packages and never contemplate bout the work profile...so guys better take decisions rather than moving in a rat race of taking jobs..and glorify your niche
Thats a great one....
But everyone is talking about pursuing a profession which you are able to enjoy...
No one is talking about how to find it.....THE REAL BIG QUESTION THAT IS CONFRONTING EACH ONE OF US...
If one wants to find it out the way THOMAS EDISON made BULB...in all certainty he/she will never be able to make it to his FAIRYLAND...
Its good that you are able to spot one of the professions that you do not want to pursue and has taken a bold initiative...It needs a lot of courage and confidence in yourself that you will be able to get a place for yourself where you want to be...
How many people do you think can make it to their professions of choice (if its other than software)?? You do know the answer to this question...
Its too easy to be carried away by the great words...but the reality is a bit different...
The question has boiled down to our existence....
The target is just a break in the industry...where we can requisite groundwork to make a shift to the profession of our choices.....
When did u start giving sensible ideas??? it seems kind of sensible to me as i can never say u hv become totally sensible. sorry tats a long road that u usually dont take and if u do take very rarely(as in this case) u wld never reach the dead end which as u know i've already reached!!!! hee-hee-hee
Hey buddy...thanx for including my words in your prestigious blog.
1. knowledge is power.
2. little knowledge is dangerous.
3. ignorance is bliss.
I have only these three sayings to add :-)
As I truly believe in these lines:
"...The only way to do great work is to love what you do.
If you haven't found it yet, keep looking.
Don't settle.
As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it.
And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better
as the years roll on.
So keep looking until you find it.
Don't settle...."
"Stay Hungry!!! Stay Foolish!!!"
Said by none other than "Steve Jobs"
and I think you have come to the point of self-actualisation.
Congo!! for such a bold decision...
n Wish u All The BEST!!!
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